Why Punishment Doesn’t Work
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Why Punishment Doesn’t Work

Punishments don’t truly teach or correct behavior because they focus on external control rather than internal understanding. When children are punished, they may comply out of fear, but they don’t necessarily learn why their actions were wrong or how to make better choices in the future. Instead, positive, conscious parenting helps us connect and teach our child, creating a lasting change in their behavior.

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Parenting Without Yelling. It’s Possible
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Parenting Without Yelling. It’s Possible

Yelling is commonly a parenting pitfall. Whether we’re trying to get their shoes on and leave on time or get our kids to the dinner table, yelling is often what we feel is the only thing that works. It really doesn’t. And it doesn’t feel good either. Positive, conscious parenting helps in ways that actually teaches a new skill and creates a family dynamic based on respect.

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Off-to-School Confidence
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Off-to-School Confidence

Parenting confident kids and growing confidence in our child includes helping our child feel capable, not perfect

What kids really need to develop is strong self-esteem.

We support this by praising effort, not outcomes, with us by their side not as a fixer, but as a supporter.

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Understanding Our Own Triggers In Parenting
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Understanding Our Own Triggers In Parenting

 Parental anger and even moments of rage are incredibly common—but rarely talked about. Many parents carry shame about their outbursts, thinking it means they’re “failing” or “broken.” The truth? Anger is a normal human emotion. It's not the anger itself that's the issue—it's what we do with it that matters most. Read on to learn tips in consciously managing our anger and frustration in parenting.


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More Challenges In Permissive Parenting
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

More Challenges In Permissive Parenting

Permissive parenting, where we have low demands and low expectations for our child, can have impactful challenges in our parenting and in our child’s behavior. Read on to learn how to move out of this loose, untethered parenting style, into a more grounded and connected style that supports our child.

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Honoring Connected, Loving Dads: The Power of Your Presence
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Honoring Connected, Loving Dads: The Power of Your Presence

The role of a father has grown far beyond being just being a provider. Children need connected dads—fathers who show up emotionally, mentally, joyously in spirit, and physically for their family; that strong father-child bond. Today we celebrate you for being your child’s hero.

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Growing Self Esteem In Our Child
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Growing Self Esteem In Our Child

When we believe in our child’s kindness, believe in their goodness, relishing in their beautiful moments, we can remember that everything we say and do leaves an imprint. We can help strengthen their self image, making for a more confident and resilient child.

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A Love Letter For Mother’s Day
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

A Love Letter For Mother’s Day

What your kids need is not a perfect mom—it’s a present one. One who can say, “I love you, and I’m learning right alongside you.” Let’s give ourselves the compassion we give others and celebrate being the mom we are- the one that is full of love and is changing and growing with our child.

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The Power To Choose Builds Confidence and Cooperation
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

The Power To Choose Builds Confidence and Cooperation

When children are given appropriate choices, they learn to make decisions, problem-solve, and take responsibility for their actions. When a child has a say and an opportunity to choose, they’re more likely to cooperate.

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The Hidden Cost Of Forcing Kids to Compete
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

The Hidden Cost Of Forcing Kids to Compete

Teamwork and resilience are important values to teach our child, but excessive pressure to compete can lead to anxiety and fear of failure. Read on to learn the balance between encouragement and competition so our child feels seen and understood, and has the power to succeed in ways we may not realize. Conscious, positive parenting teaches us to lean in, with compassion.

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The Challenges of Permissive Parenting
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

The Challenges of Permissive Parenting

Permissive parenting: Parenting without clear limits and boundaries, low expectations and low demands, can yield a parenting style rife with challenges and behavioral struggles. Read on to learn how to move from permissive to authoritative parenting.

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Are Your Expectations Realistic?
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Are Your Expectations Realistic?

By embracing child development and behavior management strategies that are appropriate for their age and stage in their development, we can replace rigidity and too high or too low expectations with flexibility and connection: a parenting combination that can become a journey of growth for both parent and child.

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Trusting Our Child As They Face Challenges
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Trusting Our Child As They Face Challenges

Trust is a fundamental aspect of parenting. It tells our child, “I trust you to tackle hard things, to face challenges that will help your grow, to trust yourself and that failure is not something to be feared, but to be learned from.” Read on to learn more about the importance of trust in conscious, positive parenting.

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 Being In Control Without Being Controlling
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Being In Control Without Being Controlling

Our role in parenting isn’t to clear every obstacle, but to teach and cheer them on as they navigate their path and learn. We can remind ourselves: we’re aiming for progress over perfection, and connection over control. When we give up being controlling, we gain control as an effective parent leader. Controlling our child does not create better child behavior management.

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Parenting: When We’re Consistently Inconsistent
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Parenting: When We’re Consistently Inconsistent

When we are consistently inconsistent in our parenting, we continue using techniques that are ineffective and yet we often expect different results. Read on to learn how to change what’s not working and how to bring in new techniques that work

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Growing Our Boys Authenticity
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Growing Our Boys Authenticity

Stereotypes perpetuate images that can invalidate and detract our sons true passion and love. As a conscious, positive parent, we can replace old harmful beliefs with true acceptance of our child’s interests and embrace them, so they can live up to their true self.

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  Mantras Help Us Parent Better
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Mantras Help Us Parent Better

A simple repetitive phrase; a mantra or word, can help us calm our nervous system and parent from a place of calmness and strength.

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